If we trust we are then whole.   Yet when trust is broken, we become broken.   The cornerstone to a faith filled relationship is trust.   If trust is proven to be lost, how can we proceed and fulfill the depth of any relationship?  

If we find a liar in our midst, is this not a broken trust?   The communication breakdown is pivotal in the trust factor.   Can I be trusted if I am found to be a liar?

Someone said to me, “All people lie!”   I disagree!   I choose to believe there are some who will choose not to speak at all, rather than tell a lie.   If a lie is given and it is realized at the time, it will reveal itself for what it is.   Humiliation on the part of the transgressor, and the part of the reciever occur.   Why?   Because the reciever, if a ‘friend’ will be embarrassed for the transgressor.    Though it is easy  to become a liar,  one can choose to be offended by the ‘title liar’ and strive for a higher ground.

When a trust is broken through a lie or an infidelity, both are hurtful!

Would you want me for a friend or lover if I were a known liar?    I think not!    For if it were so, I feel sorry for you!   For a liar breaks a heart!   A liar decieves, and thinks nothing of it!   A liar thinks only of himself and deems his needs and desires above all else.

If people were to stop and consider the magnitude of lying, they would strive for higher ground.   Reaching for holiness!   For to attain holiness, we must want it, strive for it, and pray for it!   Holiness is purity of heart, perfection of spirit and tranquility of soul!   Holiness is the delight of Our Heavenly Father!   He loves it when we choose to become holy, for we are then following His plan, and rejoicing in His will, and not our own.
First John Chapter 2 verse 17 verses 20-23

17)” And the world and its seductions is passing away but the man who does God’s will endures forever.”

20)”But you have the anointing that comes from the Holy One, so that all knowledge is yours.”

21)”My reason for having written you is not that you do not know the truth but that you do, and that no lie has anything in common with the truth.” 

22)”Who is the liar?  He who denies that Jesus is the Christ.   He is the antichrist.”

23)”Anyone who denies the Son has no claim on the Father, but he who acknowledges the Son can claim the Father as well.”