In life conflict and indifferance are a constant contibutor to unhappiness. In the book of LUKE Chapter 11 Verses 27-28 the answer lays. 

While he was saying this a woman from the crowd called out, “Blest is the womb that bore you and the breast that nursed you!” 28 “Rather,” He replied, “blest are they who hear the word of God, and keep it.”